Stitch by Stitch

I learned (or relearned) how to crochet about 6 years ago and then learned how to knit about 5 years ago.  Looking back, I think that this may have been an unconscious step on the journey that I am now consciously undertaking.  For myself, there is something deeply feminine and purifying about making something beautiful with my own hands.  Knitting and crocheting have also taught me some valuable lessons.

One of the more important lessons that I have learned from yarncrafting is patience.  Everything that can be created in this fashion must be created one stitch at a time.  There is really no other way to do it.  Even something easy like a basic dishcloth takes several hours.  Making something larger can take weeks, months, or even longer.  There is no real way to rush it along.  My fingers will only move so fast.  The project will take as long as it takes.  Eventually, though, if I keep working on it, the project will get finished…one stitch at a time.

On the other hand, even though I can not rush the project along, it will only get completed if I keep working on it.  To my chagrin, I have many abandoned projects and yarn that I have purchased for projects I have never started, which are cluttering up my back porch.  One question I have often been asked by people is how long a project takes.  That is a really hard question to answer.  Only the very easiest projects can be completed in one sitting.  Most projects involve working on it in snatches of time over a much longer period.  While some of it depends on the difficulty and size of the project, but some of it also depends on how many snatches of time one devotes to it.

The nice thing is, though, that even though projects can not be complete unless one is actively working on them, one can start again at any time.  I just started a sweater.  I purchased the yarn for the project a few years ago, and I had chosen the pattern.  I just never started it.  Yet, when I decided to start it, the yarn and the pattern were all ready for me.  So, I have finally begun the project, to be completed stitch by stitch!


There are so many things in life like that.  I am finding that to be the case in reclaiming my hestia.  There are so many projects that need to get done, and it can be really overwhelming!  If I think about all the things I have to do, I will go hide in my room and not do a thing.  Yet, if I slow down and work on my projects, stitch by stitch, they will eventually get completed.

There are several task management programs out there.  When I had my business, I used to use Microsoft Outlook.  Now, I am using a program called Toodledo, which is a free, cloud based program.  The nice thing about it is that I can set up tasks to repeat themselves daily, weekly, monthly, or whatever interval is right.  When I have large projects to do, I have started to make those projects daily repeating tasks.  Each day, I try to work on a least a little bit, even if it is just 5 or 10 minutes.

It may seem like only working 5 or 10 minutes a day on something would not accomplish much, especially when one has a big project.  Often though, I find that once I get started, I spend more time than that each day, and even if I do not…the project still gets done faster that way than if I am not working on it at all!  Last fall, I managed to finish the project of cleaning the closet in this manner.  This spring, I am tackling the project of cleaning the back porch!

Oh yes, and it by starting the project of cleaning the back porch, that I found the yarn for the sweater I had planned several years ago!  I wonder which will get finished first, the back porch or the sweater?


Med Moura

For those who practice the Filianic faith, tomorrow is Med Moura, the day in the middle of Moura.  Moura is the month in the Filianic calendar devoted to the time that the Daughter descends to the Underworld to bring Light to the places where the Mother’s Light can not reach in the world, and in our hearts. Many of us observe the month of Moura by taking on a spiritual discipline.  Our Moura disciplines may be positive or negative disciplines, taking something on or giving something up.  Many of my sisters in faith have given up sweets for Moura.

On Med Moura, we take a rest from our Moura disciplines.  I hope that those who are giving up sweets for Moura enjoy their day tomorrow with LOTS of delicious, sweet things. This is also the day in the Filianic calendar that we honor our mothers, teachers, and other superiors with gifts of appreciation.

SAMSUNGThis year, as last year, I have taken on a project that only seems appropriate during Med Moura.  As part of our faith, many of us have home shrines.  My home shrine is in my bedroom.  As you can see, Our Lady is also watching over one of my cats today.

At the end of Moura, we observe Hiatus, or the day (or days) outside of time.  During Hiatus, the Daughter has been slain by the Dark Queen, and the world has become a Wasteland.  During this time, we avoid talking about or even thinking about the future.  As much as we can, we act like the future does not exist.  During this time we also cover all images of Our Lady with a dark cloth.

From last year's Med Moura discipline

From last year’s Med Moura discipline

As I am able to knit and crochet, I thought it would be nice to make dark clothes by hand for the time of Hiatus.  It seems right that these clothes should be made in silent prayer and contemplation, and it also does not seem right do work on them at other times of the year.  Last year, I did start them after Sai Herthe day, but I started working on them on a regular, daily basis during Moura.  This year, for Moura, I have been trying to spend a half an hour a day in silent prayer and meditation while crocheting the dark altar clothes.  As my shrine has multiple levels, I need multiple clothes.  I have two finished from last year, and I think I will manage to have a third one finished by the end of Moura this year.

I wish all who are observing Moura a lovely day tomorrow relaxing from your Moura disciplines.  I also wish special blessings upon those who are mothers or who are acting as teachers or mentors for others.

It’s that Time Again: The Annual Yarncrafting Marathon

Oh dear.  It is that time again.  It is September, and Labor Day has just come and gone.  It just occurred to me, that despite my resolutions and best intentions, I have not started one Nativity present yet.  It looks like my annual knitting and crocheting marathon is about to begin.

Made by my aunt and given to me when I was a toddler

Made by my aunt and given to me when I was a toddler

As I am gearing myself mentally for the challenge and task of deciding on handmade gifts for friends and family, I started thinking about yarncrafting.  About 5 years ago, for some strange reason, I had the urge to relearn crochet.  I say relearn, because I actually had learned to crochet, at least a little, when I was about 9 years old.  I did not do much, mostly blankets for my Breyer Horses.  I do not think I learned more than single crochet, and I could never manage to crochet straight rows.  Now that I have learned again, I realize that I did not put in the chain stitch at the end of each row, but I did not know that then.

As a child, I was always fascinated by handmade things.  I still have handmade pictures of a cat and a dog that an aunt of mine made for me when I was a very little girl.  I remember seeing them and just being in awe of her that she made them!

On the other side of my family, there is a long history and tradition of making things by hand.  My grandmother’s house is filled with handmade pictures, tablecloths, and afghans that have been made by her sisters and her mother.  She used to sew all of her children’s clothing before it got to be more expensive to make clothes than to buy them at the store.  When I learned to crochet and then to knit, she was very proud of me.  She was more proud of me for learning to knit and crochet than she was when I graduated summa cum laude.  At the time, I was amused by this, but now, I think I understand.  If I look back, I think that learning to crochet was the very beginning of the journey that I am on now.

I think that this was made by either my great aunt or great grandmother.

I think that this was made by either my great aunt or great grandmother.

One of the best rewards for learning to crochet, and then a year later, learning to knit, was that I started to hear new stories from my grandmother.  I heard about how her mother would make all of the clothing for her, her two sisters and her two brother.  I heard how her mother had to knit socks for her father, and when his socks started to get holes, she would unravel the foot part, reuse the cuff, and re-knit the foot part.  I heard about how her mother bought a dress that fit her perfectly from the store, and how when it was worn out, her mother made a pattern out of it, and made all her future dresses to that pattern.  My grandmother was the youngest of the girls in her family, and I heard about how her mother would take the material from the clothes from the older girls and remake them for her, so she did not feel like she was getting hand-me-downs.  I heard about how carefully her mother would mend all of their clothing from the inside, so that no one could tell that the clothes had been mended.  Contrast that to blue jeans that are purposely made with holes in them!

Made by my grandmother.  She used to have a yellow apron, but sadly, her apron got lost over the years.

Made by my grandmother. She used to have a yellow apron, but sadly, her apron got lost over the years.

I even heard stories about my grandmother’s grandmother, who would make linen from plants.  I guess that the plants were carefully dried on the porch, and then later spun into yarn.  I am just amazed at how hard our foremothers used to work for the basic necessities of life.  Someday, I do want to learn how to spin, but maybe not just yet.

Speaking of my grandmother, I just remembered her birthday is coming up soon.  She has begun to expect handmade socks as presents from me, and is almost disappointed if I give her anything else.  I really do need to get moving on things, don’t I?  Lots to do!  Lots to do!  I really am not sure what happened this summer.

Then there is always the dilemma, do you make one thing at a time, or have several projects going at once?  I am not sure which is faster, but I do know that when it gets late in the yarncrafting marathon season….late November and December, I often move from leisurely working on many different projects as I feel like it to hurriedly making one thing at a time, based on time it takes to ship things and the like.

Despite the time crunch, I do think I will finish the autumn lace gloves I am making myself before I begin the holiday rush!  I have one glove finished, and I just need to finish the fingers on the second one.  They should not take too much time to finish, so long as I work on them in earnest.

Work in Progress!

Work in Progress!

I guess I should stop writing and get back to my knitting!

Good luck and ganbatte kudasai* to any other yarncrafters starting their holiday projects!


*Ganbatte kudasai is a Japanese phrase.  The literal translation is “please, do your best.”  This phrase is used in the same context as the American phrase “good luck.”